How to Get Over The Friend Zone Without Wrecking Your Brains

It is often the most perilous stage of a relationship. You two are going out and things seem to be doing great.

But you want things to be more than just that… You like her… But are the feelings mutual? Should you take the first step? And even if you do, will it work?

How can you get over the friend zone? This is the key question, and this article will serve to provide insights on how you can do that with 3 powerful tips you can instantly apply.

Tip number 1: From the start, follow your heart

You have to be sincere right from the start of the relationship. That is going to be key. If you have had a bad rap with the girl previously, now is the best time to either repatriate the damage you may have previously done or treat her with absolute sincerity now.

Women are very sensitive creatures. And once you have a tinge of insincerity in your dealings with her, she will notice it and this can easily signal the end of the relationship, much less getting over the friend zone.

Tip number 2: Plan Your Revelation

Yes, this is going to be important. You have to think through how you want to broach the topic of “revealing” your feelings for her.

Where do you want to do it? Is it a fancy restaurant? On the beach while you are strolling? After a movie?

What are you going to say to her? How are you going to say it?

This is going to be like marketing, but this time round, the product you are marketing is yourself. Think about how you are going to portray yourself and angle your “marketing message” for greatest success. This is a step that you cannot afford to let loose or be lazy about, because very often, you only have one shot at this, and if you fail, you fail; the chance of you getting another shot with a failure always diminishes.

Tip number 3: Dare to take action

Very often, people stay in the friend zone and stagnate because both parties do not dare to make the first move. It could very well be that the girl is interested in you, but she has her ego and does not make the first move. If you never try, you never know.

So, after you have planned out your course of action (from tip number 2), the most crucial thing you have to do is to act on it, and trust that it will all work out somehow.

As Steve Jobs says "You can't connect the dots looking forward you can only connect them looking backwards." JUST TAKE THE PLUNGE. This is best piece of advice I can ever give you, because inaction kills the best of ideas in this world.

I hope you found this article helpful, and here is me wishing you all the best for your relationships… and getting out of the friend zone.

 

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